Im starting to have doubts about getting married to my fiance. His constant doubting and pessemistic thoughts about me being stepmother to his son really makes me wonder if HE'S ready for marriage. I always try to reassure my fiance that i love his son but he thinks that for me to love his son i have to play with him 24/7, and show him affection all the freaking time..Ive never been a person who gushes over kids or contstantly give