SS28 did not grow up in this house, but he used to refer to the house where he and his BM and family lived as HIS house. DH and I were high school sweethearts almost 40 years ago. We split up, etc. each had lives -- his included 3 children, I had none. We got back together after DH was diagnosed with cancer and decided he no longer wanted to remain in his marriage -- that was 10 years ago. Children were 20, 18 and 16 at the time. 18 year old and 16 year old cussed me out, met their dad at the curb with BM and garbage bags of his stuff and told him they decided he got the other car.....