So happy to have found this website. It's difficult to discuss skids with anyone. Dh gets defensive and protective of them when I voice any concerns with him. We've been married for 17 years & have 1 child together (16). Up until last year, he had two daughters, (22 & 26) who lived with us for several years when we first married -- which is another story I'll share sometime. 15 years ago, DH had an affair & child with another woman. They live in another state & dh's only visited them 2x. I agreed to stay with dh after extensive therapy and his significant remorse.