I am a good person. I am kind-hearted to near fault. I can't help but feel sorry for people who clearly have problems, even when they are mean, belligerent, and psychotic to me. The only thing that really gets to me is someone being unkind to my DH or child. Unfortunately, BM has done all of the above. We have endured 2 years of texts messages that she "accidentally" sends to my DH. Everything from texts about loving anal sex to how my daughter (whom I was, at the time, 8 months pregnant with) would probably be born mentally retarded. She was not, not that I would have loved her any less.