DH is on his way to go pick up ss15 so that he can discuss with the boy moving in with us.
he has been telling his mother all week long that when he turns 16 - (2 months away) that he can choose where he lives and he is moving in with us.
i had a few discussions with DH about this. didnt say too much other than Dh would make him have rules and not like now, because now when the skids visit they are "guests" in our house. when he lives with us (yes he is already saying when - not "if") he would have rules and would have responsibilities to his laundry and helping with cleaning up dishes.

i'm in panic attack mode at the thought of them havign a cheery conversation without me and already deciding about what will transpire.

there is a liqour store in my future as well as an appt with a dr to prescribe me some sort of sedative or super pill to help me through the next 2 (hopefully he'll leave at 18) years.