I have three step children, SD 15, SS 16, SS20 and no children of my own.

I am 40 and been wit my husband since I was 25 and while we have argued in the past about the kids and ex-wife, it never has gotten to the point that it is now. - A Wedge between us

I am at my wits end with the lack of appreciation and respect that come from my step kids and for some reason my husband seems to let it be and takes it.