WHAT A WEEKEND!!!!!!!!
Well I had a few days off and didn't blog for awhile so this might be a little long...SORRY!!!
So the week went pretty well. SD16 had dad all week, I kind of backed off so she could get her fix and go to BM for the 4 days as planned...Well that bit me in the ass...
Thursday she went to BM as planned, that night went off without a hitch. Then Friday came as I perdicted....Well a little worse than i had even dreamed...
We went to a anniversary party Friday night. SD16 called DH twice within a 2 hour span. She was sick and vomiting. OK BM is there its a stomach bug once again just like last week, clear liquids, rest, it will run its course. Well the third call came in at about 10:30, she was talking weird, not makin any sense, and sounded like she was high. My stomach was turning, the drinks I did have, the buzz is gone now and we run out of the party. We call BM only to get "she is fine, she is a drama queen, if you can do better come get her. OK so DH says I am going to go over to see if she is OK, is that OK with you. BM says whatever if it makes you feel better. So I wait in the car, shacking, stomach turning, this is just to much already. Well DH comes out of the house with SD carrying her, we put her in the car, she is delusional, talking and making no sense, eyes dilated, bright red, very scary. I tell DH we are going to the ER....We go to the ER check in I tell Dh I will be back. I go outside call my parents and tell them to pick me up. i go into the ER tell DH I have my parents picking me up you stay with SD and call me when you know anything. It was just to much and my son was home alone. I didn't mind him home but he is 14 and the ER would be a long wait. I didn't sleep DH and SD came home at 3. She was not high but she was severally dehydrated, and high fever. MY GOD!!!! Her BM called the next day and DH told her she should of went to ER alot sooner and thank god we went to check her what is wrong with you. She told DH he was being like SD and she was fine she just needed rest. HEY DUMB ASS she needed IV fluids, was dehydrated and delusional...WTF is wrong with this woman....I felt so bad for SD I really did that when I got home from the ER seeing her like that was just heart breaking...I cried with my mother and just didnt understand how a mom can be so cruel. When we were leaving BM's she came outside and said if you need me call....WHAT?????? DH has contacted a lawyer....He left a message this weekend and we will hear something today. She is 16 and by law does not have to go with BM we want to make sure this is correct. DH and I forbid her to go with BM any further. If we did not go by to check on her something bad could of happened. The thought is just killing me. The rest of the weekend I took care of her like she was my own. All my feelings of "I hate this kid" went away. I just felt so bad for her. and we all know when we are sick we want our moms. Well this weekend i was hers....and will be from now on....It will be a long road but I am going to try my best.
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I know, I totally understand
I know, I totally understand that. But when you see a child like this child looked you know it is not a cry wolf, ya know....I have seen her faking and this was not faking it was scary...
You have the opposite
You have the opposite problem, I do. My BM calls DH even for a cough, she would take him to hospital for anything. I remember when the swine flu was a major concern, I laughed with my friends and jokingly said any day now BM will call that she is in ER with SS stating he has the Swine Flu. Sure enough she called one day and said that she thinks he has the Swine Flu, and that he had to go to the hospital. I knew it was not the Swine Flu, I asked DH how do they know and if he was in the closed off section (they had a part of the hospital designated just for Swine Fly), and of course he wasn't because he didn't have the symptoms, but my husband went (over an hour drive) scared that SS might pass away. I bitched about it, because to me she was manipulating him as she always does, he was highly pissed off at me because "his son was dying and I was being unreasonable".