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daisy0202's picture

So our weekend was completely WONDERFUL!!!!! had some drama with MIL but SD16 NONE!!!!!!

So Wed as you all know SD16 slept at MIL's. Friday again she slept at MIL's but Friday when DH came home from dropping her off he seemed aggravated. We were going to a birthday party dinner so of course I was like WHAT?????? He said MIL gave him a wicked hard time why she was sleeping over again and how horrible it was that we were going out and leaving SD behind :jawdrop: WTF LADY she is SIXTEEN NOT SIX!!!!!! Whta is wrong with these people....I mean this child is going for her license May 2nd, turning SEVENTEEN In Sept....I mean really????? So we did not let it bother us and just went on our way.

Sat SD came home at like 4:30. DH worked, I went up to visit my son in college (he couldnt come home for easter because of work) and then we were going to our friends down the street for drinks. SD16 came home very very cranky!!!! Asked DH what is wrong. DH tells me she wont say, my responce OH OK!!!! So I go on my way, take a shower get ready to put some burgers on grill, eat and off we go. SD16 tells me when I get out of shower....Are you leaving my dad? WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??????? She tells me MIL and SIL told her if SM is going to the Islands without your dad she is looking for someone else and will find them since I am such a slut and gold digger!!!! MF....I said SD16 i can not deal with this shit anymore. Everyone needs to get over the fact I am married to your father, i am going NO WHERE, and the sooner all of you deal the better our lives will be. You want to believe MIL and SIL you go right ahead. Get your hopes up that i will leave your father and when it doesnt happen you can have a anxiety attack and cry and whatever else you do because I am on to your shit and have had enough...I love your father he loves me and there is nothing wrong with our relationship except the drama we deal with by MIL SIL and sorry to say you!!!! I love you I love our family but I am done being silent...and please go run and tell daddy because as soon as our conversation is done i am telling DADDY!!!!!!

SHE WAS SPEECHLESS!!!!!! She didnt say a word except. I am sorry..Dont tell my dad please!!! Oh I am telling your dad because what MIL and SIL said was wrpong and telling you when we have issues already was wrong and I am not putting up with it....I told DH he was BULLSHIT!!! Called his mother called his sister screamed and yelled about making our matters worse!!It was amazaing what came out of his mouth. I was so proud...

The best news 4 days and I am leaving. ( days of sitting on a beach drinking pina coladas and being a gold digger....Oh BTW I make more money than my DH, the house we live in is MINE (bought it before I meet him) and i drive a better car...So GOLD DINGGER BITCH I DONT THINK SO quess my DH is the gold digger...IDIOTS!!!!

Overall besides that shit had a great weekend with DH. SD16 was not to klingy and actually gave us space. Sunday had a great family dinner and didnt have to go to MIL due to there stupidty...Thank you MIL....

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daisy0202's picture

Usually i keep my mouth shut and just bitch to DH...but that was the last draw...i have had it!!!

CrazieCoconut86's picture

I am so proud of your DH for calling your MIL and SIL out on their shit. That is just crazy. Even if you think that, you don't say it to the children, no matter how old the children are.

I am glad you had a great weekend and holiday. Enjoy your trip!

ThatGirl's picture

MIL and SIL are a bad influence on SD16. I would seriously limit their amount of time spent with her. Definitely no more overnights.

imthewife's picture

Daisy...I see a pattern of her only having balls big enough to talk to you like shit when daddy isn't in the room...

She need not speak to you unless she is in front of her dad from now on. Maybe that will keep the outrageous comments from coming.

Why was MIL so surprised she arrived on Friday...wasn't this arranged?

My...you have a plate full of nuts over there...you need that vacation!

Doubletakex3's picture

I think that's exactly what she needed...you to call her out on her, MIL & SIL's shit! Put her in her place. And, I'm thrilled to hear that DH went off on his family. They sound like caddy women who need to get a life.

I'm amused by the gold digger comment. Cracks me up...honey if we were digging for the good life we'd be shackin' up with a kidless bazillionaire...not someone who earns less and comes with a bunch of bitchy baggage!