You are here

sitting at work agravated!!!!

daisy0202's picture

I am just so upset with DH today...he called me on lunch, earlier than usual, he knows I am upset....But yet he says nothing about it at lunch...Talks about his day and how my day is....Talks about whats for supper....blah blah blah....But yet in the back of my mind I am just thinking about this morning and how upset i am that he has poured everything on me and i am just supposed to sit back and take it becuase I am the woman....NO!!!! this is not right and talking to him right now would not be a good idea...he's all happy things are going well....SD16 told DH i wish BM was more like SM, how grateflu she is for me taking care of her when BM did not....and this is all good but you can not just sit back while I take care of everything from here and you go do whatever you want to....I mean really?????

So i called a friend on lunch after talking to DH and made plans for Friday. i am going for dinner and drinks with friends. DH will be thrilled but my son will be with his dad so i really dont have any reason to stay home since DH made plans with the guys already....I will have something for SD to eat for dinner but other than that DH can figure out things....Just pisses me off royally!!!!! IDIOT!!!!!

Comments

Jsmom's picture

Why are you figuring out something for her to eat? That is not your problem. That is his. Go out with friends and have a good time. DH takes care of his kids feeding outside of me making a meal for everyone. You need to force him to be responsible for his child. He is not even thinking about feeding her, because you will. You have to change this or it gets worse...

When we go out and I have BS and his son is at BM's, I figure out food for my kid. He is 16 and I leave a ten on the counter and leave. Up to him how he wants to handle it. He is 16 and self sufficient.