My vacation to Punta cana is comming up in 9 days and I CANT F^&%*ing wait!!!!!!!

I booked (for those who do not know, blogged awhile ago) a Punta Cana trip for me and BS14 for April vacation. DH could not get time off and I refused to take SD16. I have my parents also comming and friends of theirs comming. Last night to make myself feel better of this shit we are going through I started going through my sundresses I bought for the trip. SD16 comes in my room, uninvited like usual, and says real cocky.."getting ready for your trip with BS"...I say yes....She says I cant believe my dad is OK with you going to the islands wearing those dresses. :jawdrop: my response...excuse me? well they are sexy dresses and you will obviously be hit on, my poor dad.....SD you need to get out of my room. I immediatly dropped everything went down to the basement in tears. DH was like OMG what is wrong and I proceeded to tell him what had happened...He was livid...Said wait here....Ran upstairs brought SD downstairs and of course she was crying saying I did not mean it that way I swear, I am sorry you took it wrong, I love you, you mean everything to me, I am just going to miss you so much :jawdrop: You little liar...I saw right through her it was amazing watching because then daddy was like well you have to deal with your emotions in a better way sweetheart :sick: Now apoligize and next time lets handle your emotions of being upset SM is leaving in a different manner....I just looked at DH with a look of :? Are you kidding me?????

She sniffed and went back upstairs. DH hugs me and says I'm so glad she will miss you....WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?????/ She is playing you.....No she isnt she really will miss you and is upset shes not going....You are an idiot!!!!!!!!

One word seriously....DISENGAGE!!!!!! I AM DONE WITH THIS LITTLE BITCH!!!!! I have told DH this is it until I notice a HUGE difference I will not be doing anything for her. I will not be doing her laundry, bringing her anywhere, going out of my way at all.....I do not believe the shit i am dealing with and if she is sooooo upset and is going to miss me sooo much I expect a little more respect and maturity from her when i return. When i see this i will go back to my old ways but not until.....Do you know he thought I...ME was being ridiculous and she is a child and I was acting like a child.....Well the fight we had was the worse it has ever been. OI told him if I can not get respect in my home than it was time for them to leave. (the house is mine BTW) they moved in with me and my boys 5 years ago....DH lived with his MOTHER!!!!!

Well DH was SHOCKED!!!!! and of course later that night kissy huggy, begging me to be patient...How patient can you be.....We talked but I feel I got no where.....WTF!!!!!