My boyfriend is discussing with his ex-wife about having a graduation party together for their son. I am new to the family -- all of his extended family seem to really like me (said love me). We've been together just about a year. My boyfriend and his ex don't get along very well. Well, they get along as long as she always gets her way. Otherwise she screams at him and treats him terribly. I suggested we have separate graduation party's ... one with my boyfriend's family and sons, and his ex can have her own.