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Counselling as a standard practice...

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After my experience of being in a relationship with a guy with 2exes and 3 skids.... and how it has ended and how his lack of being able to manage the situation correctly etc has left me feeling with a shattered and broken heart, I was thinking that every family who is divorced, separated or gone separate ways. Married, engaged or living together should be obligated to have some type of therapy/counselling/life coaching... 

I know it would be difficult to keep track of, but I'm not thinking of the details. Just looking at the larger picture.

It's over...

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So after this weekend my SO went to his folks with his 3 kids for Saturday and sunday.  I stayed home because I had an exam today (which I passed yay!) . 

I genuinely missed my SO this weekend! I missed his presence, I missed him coming home and not being able to snuggle with him, even through all the issues and ups and downs and my anger at how this whole step thing and exes and his lack of management of his situation with his 2 exes(our situation... ?as I have chosen to br with him? ) 

Feeling hurt, & at a crossroads

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I am a first time SM in my relationship of 2,5 years. I have already explained my situation in a forum post... but there are 2exes and 3skids. I have no ex marriages or bio kids but would love to have. 

(Forum post if you are interested in the background story https://www.steptalk.org/forum/general-discussion/what-advice-would-you-...)

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