I probably should've found this site the day I met him but here I am at minds end finally doing it.

Can somebody pleeeeeeeease tell me how to deal with the ex wife and her HATRED of all things us?

The incessant texts, micro-managing his parenting, micro-managing his family relationships, making up rumors about me to try and end our relationship, telling her children hate filled things about their father and I, spending all major holidays and birthdays with his family... Somebody... Help...