DH doesn't make enough memories with SS
This is the latest text from BM2. She also sent a message to SS15 stating dear ol' dad should take you more places. Ya know, do more things, spend more money.
That's comical coming from the woman who only talks to this skid 5-15 minutes once a week. Coming from the woman who only sees him about 10 days out of a year. Of course it's disney land time then for her, isn't it? Coming from the same woman who dropped SSthen5 on DH's door step like a hot potato. Her idea of parenting is sending him videos about how much she loves him and posting autism posts on FB.
Pot. Meet. Kettle. Projecting much? Kinda easy to take him to loads of places when it's only a few days out of the year. When you have all the time in the world because you're on holiday. When you have money because you never send DH any CS. Ever. The money she does spend on him, I'd bet my life, is some man's money and not her own.
She doesn't have to put up with the little shyte bag. She doesn't have to remind him to poo and wash. She doesn't have to make him scrap shyte out of his underwear and wash it. She doesn't have to keep forcing him to do homework or not steal all your damn food or stay out of your room or stop screaming at the f'ing ps4. She doesn't have to RAISE him or spend the money it takes to support him.
She doesn't have to work full-time and try to fit activities in on your ONE day off. DH works his other day off to bring in extra money. I sure the heck don't take the little brat anywhere at this point in his life. He hasn't earn spit as far as I'm concerned.
So F you BM2. Why don't you move back here, work your high paying jobs and why don't YOU make some damn memories with your son?! Instead of sitting behind your computer screen sending judgy little messages. Instead of sending SS little poems and memes about how much you love him, in between your 5 minute phone calls. Why don't you actually RAISE YOUR DAMN KID!
Moron.
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Lol thats funny. They are
Lol thats funny. They are always full of what others should do whilst not doing anything themselves. This rubbish she spouts deserves a complete ignoral. You guys are doing more than enough already
'spend more money' yeah, thats about it. Thats the whole idea. Don't they just like to spend other peoples money.?
Ohhhhh she loves it. If
Ohhhhh she loves it. If there's a man with money she can manipulate, she is THERE!
BM here is the exact opposite
BM here is the exact opposite. She would LOVE it if DH never made any memories with his kids. And me, well they shouldn’t even remember my name, nevermind bond or create memories with me.
BM literally spent all night on the phone attempting to convince SD(then 23) to stay home and not go to Mexico with us. DHs phone went off every 2 mins with texts from BM telling him how horrible he was for taking SD to a 3rd world country where she would be kidnaped and sold into sex slavery, all while he was drunk and oblivious.
In her mind, she’s the only one her children should have happy memories with.
This sounds like our BM, too.
This sounds like our BM, too. However, SD12 is a bratty, entitled, socially awkward preteen that BM only wants to handle half of the time now so she finally decided 50/50 will work *insert massive eyeroll.
Cookies, can't you file with the court to enforce punishment/ payment plan so BM will contribute to CS?
Yeah funny how SS living with
Yeah funny how SS living with DH full-time is "for the benefit of SS". My lily white arse that's what it's for.
She lives in Cyprus, we live in England. She essentially keeps herself unemployed by working at her bf's family fish and chip shop. Most, if not all, of her earnings, therefore, is cash. Not worth the time and money so she can turn around and say she earns next to nothing.
She's crazy but not entirely stupid. Ironically, when she was married to DH, she used to complain about BM1 keeping herself unemployed and never paying CS. DH reminded her of that little fact as well last year during her many attempts to get him back. Hasn't changed anything but he said the look on her face was priceless.
What a waste of space! This
What a waste of space! This makes me so angry for you, Cookies.
This really bothers me,
This really bothers me, cookies.
It's one thing to be a deadbeat parent, but it's quite another to send subversive messages to her kid criticizing their dad while she herself is the cause of the issue.
Your DH needs to put some fear in her. Perhaps a response along the lines of "Your comments have made me reconsider the necessity of pursuing financial support for Skiddly so that we can afford to make more memories. My solicitor will be in contact. "
That would be great...but she
That would be great...but she lives in another country and works for cash. It literally isn't worth the time, money or effort. Unfortunately. One of the (very few!) benefits of SS being on the spectrum: he does not understand subtle. Hints, suggestions, beating around the bush mean absolutely nothing to him. So he doesn't get it and is not bothered by it.
She has tried to play PAS games numerous times and he'll still look her in the eyes and say "but I love my dad and Cookies." His autistic brain doesn't compute BM2's games. Which is good. He's enough trouble as it is.