SD9 asked me SO nicely last night to come to her school concert on Thursday. It's during the day, but I have a very laid back job and it's easy for me to take time off. Obviously, it's going to be boring and I don't want to go - but she asked so nicely! Her mom can't go, apparently she got a second job (which I don't understand!) She gets child support even though it's a 50/50 split, she has a FT job already and a husband with a FT job... you only see your kids EOW and you get a second job taking even more time away from seeing them? Anyways, so BM isn't going.