so I have been with my guy for about a year now. I’m 29 and he is a lot older than me with a handful of kids. Long story short there was a lot of controversy in the beginning when we were dating and his kids mom just had a baby, while I’m currently pregnant and due in two months. He has a 6 year old with BM who comes over on the weekends, which doesn’t bother me as much because I have a 5 year old as well.