She had one of my stepdaughters deliver a note to me and one to DH. My note basically said he is not who he appears to be. He is emotionally abusive and selfish. I should keep my guard up because he will break my heart. He doesn't c are about anyone but himself and his penis. I should not get to attached to my step kids because it won't last long she can see it in his eyes. She also apologized for psychically attacking me because she was not herself that day.