This is just a cluster fuck. Seriously. So and I have been together for 5 years living together for 1 1/2. He has 3 kids, 2 girls 9 and 12 and 1 boy 14. I have a 10 yr old boy and together we have a 9 month old. He has 50/50 custody and divorced for 5 years separated for 6. We met the week after his divorce was final. My dh passed away so I have my son full time.