I had been using this site for a long time to help my circumstances, even though I didn't ever find the courage to post. I thank you all for helping me reach my decision. 
 

I've finally decided to end our relationship. I moved out of the family house a few months ago and now it's up for sale. Can't believe I actually did it but the whole guilt ridden Disney Dad, entitled skids, ever present BM and him never wanting to consider my feelings took its toll.