So last friday BM freaked out (see standing up to BM) Well she continued to refuse to bring SS to BFs, it is court ordered that the parent ending their time drop ss off at the parent beginning their parenting time. Here are her reasons for not wanting to bring SS.

-She said she can't be bothered to leave because she has a new baby and it would be too hard to have to drop SS off at BFs. BF tells her to have her boyfriend, the babys father, watch his kid. Well he can't do that because he's not around, never was, hasn't even seen his kid yet. Oh, so when you told the judge and lawyers that the father was "in the picture" and apart of her life it was all just a lie? It's not BFs baby so it's not his problem

-Her second reason was because she didn't want to come there if I was there because she didn't want me looking at her. Yes that's right, she didn't want me LOOKING AT HER!! :? :- Huh??? I guess if I actually did shoot daggars from my eyes and spit fire when I saw her, instead of wishing, I wouldn't want me looking at me either, but I lost that ability many years ago, she has nothing to fear.

It already states in a court order that no significant other is to be involved in the exchange of the child, I can't go outside when she drops him off, which she's never done, and I can't go up to her door with BF to pick him up. I do not have to leave the apartment just because she is coming to drop SS off, which is what she wants. I have no desire whatsoever to interact with BM or to even lay eyes on her, it just makes my skin crawl with disgust.

Anywho, it's getting to be 6:30 and she still won't budge. Meanwhile, while she's on the phone ranting and raving BF can hear SS in the background. so he's sitting there listening to this and watching his mother act like this and it breaks BFs heart that he has to witness this. so he says he'll come pick him up. So we go to get him, we take my car and park out front of her building, right where she can see me and my car, BF goes up to the door to get him and we're off. 1/2 hr later BM calls, he doesn't answer, she leaves a message, "i forgot to send back your clothes, i guess i have to run out anyway do you want me to drop them off?" OMG, WTF?!?!?! BF doesn't even bother with a response to her.

BF is kind of upset with himself for caving in a going to get ss but ss shouldn't have to sit there and listen to that and also at this point their divorce isn't completley settled. They've agreed on all the terms but nothing has been signed and he doesn't want her to get pissed off then change her mind, which she has done numerous times.

He doesn't let BM walk all over him by any means and he will not tolerate it, he definetly made it known that he was pissed at her and he didn't sugarcoat anything. She's trying to take advantage and she's only screwing herself over because he's less willing to "scratch her back" if you will.