My teenage step son is very spoiled he always gets his own way treats others bad he's very disrespectful and when i address this to his father it just seems like he gives excuses after excuses like he let's him get away with a lot of shit.   It seems like when his son is very rude with me he doesn't defend me at all. I spent 3 hours making food for everyone I put my heart into it all and for him to not even eat it hurt me . His father of course sticks up for him saying oh if he don't like it than he don't like it.