As many of you has contributed to my last blog, here are some update about MIL visitation story.

First, i absolutelly don't trust her and never will. I know her intentions are not good, and that she doesn't have any affection for my baby at all. 
 

This bonding thing must be an attempt to catch up with DH and win back some destructive power in our lifes.

She came and stayed about 1 and a half hour. For the household peace, i agreed to accept her, but under my supervision (and with legal nany cams). 
However, i have conditions : only home visitation without SS (i want to avoid any conflictual situation), no family event (christmas, birthdays etc..) and i don't want her to be part of my baby life. I don't want my baby to call her grandma, it will be her firstname and nothing else. 

She brought gifts to BS, wich i paid no attention about. 

When she left, i told i didn't trust her, and will never. That my mother instinct told me she has no love for our baby and that i want to limit visitation at the minimum. I asked him to respect my choice, and he agreed. 
 

I bet, she will stop playing super grandmother when she will see we don't want to open any other door.