I'm new. I dont know all the abbreviations.. I have been married  22 yrs.

 I have 2 bio kids, 3 step kids, all grown.

   The steps were 10, 11, 12 when we got together.

 I knew they were a bit undisciplined,  and not raised like my kids. 

 There were some behavior issues.

 The step kids dont come around too much.

 I last saw them in 2018.

 They are mad because we dont buy gifts for the kids; we are retired.

 There are 12 grandkids.