My DH and I are now traveling without my SD13 for Thanksgiving. BM refused to give an inch on custody and decided to have SD recite the Divorce Decree to my DH over the phone. My DH did let my SD know that the only way her mother is able to turn the screws on him is to use her as a pawn. My DH has been treated unfairly for years by the courts and the vengeful BM, so we all have to suffer as a result.