I am new to this site but soo thrilled to have come across it. Where have you been for the last 17 years. Here is my issue. Child support ends this month with graduation. The ex-spouse actually send a text message to my husband asking if he wants to continue paying support. Are you kidding me? We are 54 and 46 and have two sons of our own 12 and 14. We have saved nothing for college and very little for retirement. I am a teacher and my husband makes a little more than I do.Finally we can have a little extra to save for emergencies and retirement.