Let me start by saying I love and respect my boyfriend, he is 8 years older than me and I was 19 when we got together so sometimes the age difference can show in our relationship and thinking levels. Long story short, 2 months after we were together I became pregnant then a custody battle begin between him and his bm for their 4 yo daughter. I was excited to meet her when the time would come. It started to consume him, then we found out our baby developed a lethal condition and we had to do emergency termination.