Stain enlisted his mom in his campaign to get another car for him out of us. I bought him his first car. The car finally broke down due to lack of maintence on his part. He's going to be 21, he was told to bring it over when it started acting up, my husband was going to help him fix it and show him how to do oil changes. Stain does not want to work on his car or get dirty and he does not want to pay to have his car maintained. His car died. He wants it towed to my house until we can pay to fix it, not happening, I'm not paying to fix it and I don't have room to have a car as a yard ornament. Husband and I are slowly getting out of debt from his divorce and guilty daddy spending. His X wife got the marital home and sold it with a net profit of close to 200,000. She cries broke with all that money in the bank and basically demanded we help Stain out. Both of them were told NO by my husband, I'm proud of him for that.He told her AGAIN to not contact him unless its about the adult kids health, he wants nothing to do with her. Stains bike is still here, he is welcome to come get it at anytime, Stain does not want to be seen on the bike so it sits here collecting dust. When is this adult and his mother going to get the clue we are not responsible for his expenses anymore? We would have "helped" Stain if he would have brought the car over BEFORE he drove it into the ground and we would be more willing to help if he had contact with his father outside of wanting something. I just can't stand how he is and I'm really annoyed that he thinks he deserves more than any of the other 3 adult kids do. He's actually the ugliest out of the 3 too so he doesn't even have looks going for him. Thanks for letting me vent