hello my stepson to be has a lot of social issues and dad’s head is in the sand. My daughter however is very smart, independent and very sociable. My stepson is the complete opposite. I noticed how bad things were about the fall of last year. I had a long talk with grandad which brought up the conversation. He was estranged from the family for many years and doesn’t feel that he can say anything to his son about his grandson. We have been seeing a family therapist for about 2 months and she agrees with me 100%.