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Oh Good GRIEF BM!

BSgoinon's picture

Could you be ANY MORE predictable???

BM and DH got in to it a few nights ago. BM was wanting to pick SS up from school on a day that isn't hers. DH told her no. Then she wanted to keep him until 7 tonight, DH told her no, for a few reasons, that are completely legit. She got angry. Started texting about how he isn't in control and he doesn't hold all of the power. (he pretty much does). She was being a crazy person and a total idiot. But, what's new?

Anyway, every time DH and BM get in to it, BM tries to befriend my MIL. Sometimes (because my MIL is pretty imbalanced) MIL gives in and gets really close to her. They bond over hating DH and I, and then one of them will piss off the other and it explodes in their face. Every.Time.

I saw on BM's FB this morning that she posted something and said "This makes me miss MIL". I knew RIGHT THEN that she would try to contact MIL. So I sent MIL a text that said "wait for it..." She asked what I meant, of course. And I said "Just wait for it... here comes the crazy train"... sure enough 20 minutes later, MIL texts me "HOW DID YOU KNOW??? BM just FB messaged me and apologized for everything. I'm not responding, I want nothing to do with her ever again".

Yeah. Predictable much?? Nice try BM, nice try...

Oh, and BM didn't get her way with SS. She talks a big talk, but she knows in the end, she wouldn't have a leg to stand on if she were to fight anything.

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princessmofo's picture

She is utterly pathetic. I think you are amazing for being able to tolerate this with as much class and grace as you do. You have earned my admiration, BS. ((hugs))

BSgoinon's picture

Thank you. It's taken a lot of years to get to this point. But my life is much more peaceful now that I've learned how to deal.