Nice Try BM...
Yesterday SS was acting a little strange with his phone. I can see that BM had been texting him through out the day. But I can't see WHAT is said unless I look in his phone.
So, we are watching the baseball games yesterday when SS is being a little secretive about his phone. So, I do what most moms would do... and tell him to let me see his phone. He hands it over.
My gut tells me it has something to do with BM, so I immediately open that thread. She had text him several times earlier in the afternoon (she obviously didn't realize that he didn't have school yesterday since she started texting at 230) he wasn't responding to her. So she tells him "I have some presents for you"... what a jerk.
SS- What are they?
BM- I can't tell you silly, they are presents. When can I come give them to you
SS- I don't know.
BM- I will be in town tomorrow, can I pick you up from school?
BM- How about I come by after school. Let me know. You are gonna love it
SS- ok, come by at 2:45
BM- OK!
Me- Ummmmm SS, you can't just tell your mom to come over like that. She isn't allowed here without supervision. And she isn't allowed to see you at all without supervision. It is literally against the law.
SS- OK
Me- Do you want to see her because you miss her, or because she has something to give you?
SS- I don't know
Me- Well, if you want to SEE her because you miss her, then we can ask your grandpa to bring her to your game Sunday. If you just want presents she can drop it off when I get home from work.
SS- Nah, it's ok.
So he text her and told her "don't come tomorrow".
BM- Why not
SS- Just don't
BM- What happened?
SS- Nothing
BM- I'll call you tomorrow
I'm disappointed that SS tried to sneak that in. I am NOT surprised that BM is trying to bribe him to see her. And I am a little concerned that she will try it again and next time I won't see it.
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Your DH needs to shut this
Your DH needs to shut this down asap. BM should be blocked from his phone.
I am literally doing that as
I am literally doing that as we speak (type)
Yes and yes. We don't have an
Yes and yes. We don't have an attorney (never needed one. she digs her own graves) but she did request a court date for Nov. 22nd saying she will have completed rehab by then. So This will be going to court with us.
And we all know she hasn't completed rehab so...
This woman scares the ever
This woman scares the ever loving f*ck out of me! She is truly delusional as well as dangerous. I always admire your ability to maintain a level head through all of this drama and put your ss first. Well played, BS... Well played.
She does me too. I don't
She does me too. I don't trust her AT ALL. SS is such a good kid, and he has been handling everything so well thus far. I don't want DH and I to be the reason he goes off the deep end. We try to maintain composure for him.
She is so dangerous right
She is so dangerous right now. Obviously the addiction has a strong hold on her like never before and she's completely irrational and desperate. I know SS is older but her stalking and/or trying to get him in her car or secretly meet with him would scare the bajeezus out of me.
You always handle it so well.
It might be time for that RO,
It might be time for that RO, girl.
The kind of rehab she needs
The kind of rehab she needs would not be completed by November Anything, even she was in rehab right now, and we know she's not.
She needs to stop doing this to her son. If she truly gave a shit about him, she would get clean, not try to get him to be sneaky.
I'm not sure she has that
I'm not sure she has that kind of common sense even when she is sober. She is the kind of mom that used to show him how to order a water cup at a fast food joint and fill it with Sprite so it looks like water. She is naturally shady.
She says she is in an out
She says she is in an out patient program. But she never goes.
Does she think she can go to
Does she think she can go to court and tell the judge she has completed rehab with no proof from the rehab center and he will believe her.
Just a thought could SS wanting to see her, is just prove to himself she is 'ok', and not because he want's to see her if that makes sense.
Time to block block block and
Time to block block block and ALSO to have a long chat with SS about being sneaky
I understand the pull of the golden uterus, but I thought SS knew better - ugh.
I don't FB, I didn't see it.
I don't FB, I didn't see it. That is heartbreaking.
I saw this & thought of BS'
I saw this & thought of BS' SS as well.
I saw that but couldn't watch
I saw that but couldn't watch it.
Why would you post such a thing on social media?
Grief is such a personal thing. Finding out someone you love is dead is not something that should be publicized.
Notsobad...I found it after
Notsobad...I found it after it was discussed here on my thread. All I could think was WHY did this dad feel the need to record that? UNLESS he was trying to show other users the pain it causes their children? That was the only logical thing I could come up with.