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"I'll jump off a cliff before I get rid of my dogs"

BSgoinon's picture

BM showed up in her dad's town (an hour away) yesterday, called and told him she had a flat tire and needed help. Her dad and stepmom were supposed to come down for SS's All Star game last night. But they know not to tell BM, so she doesn't show up there.

Her stepmom says she told them that she was giving a friend a ride up there, that's why she was there. SM thinks she was lying and just trying to push her way in to their house. Which is WAY more likely. She only knows 1 person up there, and that person doesn't live there anymore because... HERE'S A SHOCKER- her dad kicked her out and she is HOMELESS in a different town now. they should share a tent.

Her dad went and rescued her, and told her that she is welcome to stay with them to clean herself up if she got rid of her dogs, and checked in to rehab. She told him she would jump off a cliff before she gets rid of her dogs, but can she please stay there ONE NIGHT until her tire is fixed. So she stayed. Stepmom came down for SS's game. Her dad stayed up there with her. Her dad has offered to pay for her to dry camp at a site in their town for ONE WEEK so she can find a home for her dogs. I'm not sure if she will take him up on that or not. She told him she doesn't need rehab (thought she was starting on the 14th :jawdrop: ) because she has been clean for 4 whole days. Remember when I talked to her 2 weeks ago, she said she had been clean for 3 days. Whatever.

Custody paperwork is being filed this afternoon. We have to attempt to serve her 3 times and have proof. So certified mail to her last known address it is. She hasn't given us any forwarding information so... it will be returned 3 times, then we will just win by default. Now that she is officially HOMELESS, it is much easier to get this done without drama for SS.

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robin333's picture

I agree with Gimlet. She is being selfish. And I am so glad DH filed the paperwork. SS is lucky to have you.