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BM's Dad went to see her...

BSgoinon's picture

It's been a while since I checked in. Thought I'd give a quick update.

Apparently BM's dad took a motorcycle ride up to see here in the little town that she moved to. It's a little over an hour and a half from here. And VERY Rural. Still no cell service or internet where she lives. Just a house phone that she can't use to call SS because it's a private number. Oh well.

She did manage to text SS a few weeks ago and said she would talk to her dad about getting SS up there for a visit. SS did as usual, one word responses "K".

After her dad went there, he came back and told her stepmom that he will NEVER take SS up there to see her. He "doesn't need to see his mom living that way". Apparently, it is the "worst living conditions" he's ever seen in his life. She is staying in a little travel trailer on someone's property. Meth man is living there with her. And it's "disgusting". DH never would have let her dad take SS up there anyways, mostly because there is no cell service. If SS can't pick up his phone and tell us to come get us if needed, then he isn't going. SS was a little irritate when BM left him a message saying "I heard you made the varsity baseball team and got a dirt bike. That's awesome". He asked me how she knows all of that. I said probably your grandpa buddy. No one has posted anything about it on social media so there is no other way for her to know. He doesn't like her knowing things about him, because she will post it on FB as though he told her.

Other than that, nothing new here. Just pluggin' away at life. Smile

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advice.only2's picture

I really do wonder if your BM is here in my town...I wonder if she’s friends with meth ex....lord that would be a pair ...eye roll!

notasm3's picture

Sounds like she lives in "Meth Valley". I no longer live in California - but so many rural areas in the deep South (and other parts of the country) are just riddled with meth.

BSgoinon's picture

There are so many little towns out here that are known as "Meth Valley". This one is in Kern County... I don't know much about this little town, I've never paid much attention to it. It's far enough away that it isn't really an issue. There is one that is closer.

BSgoinon's picture

Aniki, yeah.... that's what I told DH. We are going to have to be careful in the info we share, but all of that info is what SS told him. And I told SS that, if you don't want your mom to know things then you can't tell your grandpa. That's his daughter, he is going to tell her. Sad

Aniki-Moderator's picture

That poor kid. Grandpa should stop being blind to the fact that his d@mn daughter is a POS and is hurting his grandson. Sad

WTF...REALLY's picture

Glad to hear that SS is being saved from having to see her on a regular basis. That’s great she actually moved further away. She can enjoy her meth in peace and quiet

BSgoinon's picture

WTF... he hasn't seen her since the very beginning of August, and I can count on one hand the amount of HOURS total she has seen her this entire year. It's nice to not have to worry about her stopping by (because she has done that) or threaten to knock on the door with the police and take him (not that she can, but she doesn't even have a car to threaten that with now). Just one less thing for us to deal with. And REALLY for SS to deal with.