BM tried to get her dad to let her visit SS tonight
BM's dad is SLOWLY starting to see BM for what she truly is. Her SM is very aware, but because she is the "evil SM" she has disengaged for the most part and has stopped trying to get her dad to understand that she is an addict, she needs help, and she is NOT allowed to be around SS until she is CLEAN.
Her SM just called me. Apparently her dad spoke with BM this morning and he mentioned that SS was staying the night with them tonight. BM asked if she could see him. They asked her if she was allowed to, and she said "as long as you are with me". Straight up LIE. She also told them that SS isn't speaking to her and won't answer her calls. They will NOT be allowing her to see him.
I am FURIOUS that she tried to pull one over.
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What are you going to do? Is
What are you going to do? Is he still going over?
SM won't allow it. We trust
SM won't allow it. We trust them, she didn't even have to tell me that BM asked, she wanted to make sure we knew what she was trying to pull. And we will be right up the street tonight (the live an hour away) so if she shows up SS will call us. He doesn't want to see her. They don't want to upset SS. This is about HIM.
I told you the other day to
I told you the other day to be wary of visits with BM's dad.
I am not at all surprised that she is trying to manipulate her dad and SM.
I sure hope dad doesn't let you down.
you are absolutely right.
you are absolutely right. which is why he NEEEEEEEDS to get an order in writing! but BS cant force her dh to do anything, and thankfully this bm is not likely to call the authorities or go to court herself. so i think they're in the clear, but he still needs to file for custody.
I have all of the paperwork
I have all of the paperwork here, filled out and ready to go. I too, love my DH very much.
Lazy is not the issue.
Well, I am still pushing DH
Well, I am still pushing DH to do it. I'm just saying it's all ready to go when he's ready to pull the trigger. Maybe the fact that she is trying to be sneaky will light the fire under him... MAYBE
I hear you Cocktail. And I
I hear you Cocktail. And I don't disagree. There is nothing I can do about it at this point.
It's 2 weeks until she's in
It's 2 weeks until she's in treatment. She needs to leave well enough alone until then. Ugh you go through a lot.
I kind of agree with
I kind of agree with Cocktail...Hour, even though your DH is withholding SS from her for safety issues, what's it to say she doesn't come back in two months clean and take him to court for withholding. He doesn't have a drug test or a judge's order to prove anything. I think if she does ever sober up your DH could possibly get into some trouble for not even letting her see him with her parents around. I'm not saying he should allow that, I'm saying he needs to cover all his bases and get a legal trail following the choices he is making so he doesn't look like he was just being dramatic later on.
We have plenty of
We have plenty of documentation FROM HER in writing to back us up. I'm really not worried about that. Not to mention her ENTIRE facebook. Plus the track marks on her arms aren't going anywhere and the scars on her face. Both of her parents back us up with not letting her around with even them there. They don't want to be around her. Have that in writing too