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The Beginning of the End according to BM's Dad.

BSgoinon's picture

I'm not sure who had their money on BM keeping her job for less than 90 days but it appears she is spiralling again. 

Week before last she commented on FB about needing an engine for her car. The following Monday, it was obvious she wasn't at work because she posted about being in my town, which is an hour from where she works and 30 minutes from where she lives. She was also making a lot of "Meth Man" related posts. It was apparent that she had been spending time with him recently. On Thursday of last week her stepmom emailed me and asked if SS had heard from her. I told her not since Tuesday. She had text him on Tuesday and told him that her car broke down. SS replied "jeez". I'm sure she took that as sympathy... he told me that it's "always something with her". 

I took a look at her FB after her stepmom emailed me, and noticed that she had been MIA since Tuesday. And her posts Monday and Tuesday made it obvious that she didn't go to work Tuesday either. And she usually posts when she is at work, so it was likely that she hadn't been in all week. In conversation with Stepmom regarding our trip for the weekend (they were joining us for part of it to see SS play baseball) I was informed that BM had in fact missed work all week because she has (ANOTHER) staph infection from picking  her face. She threatened her employers to take them to the labor board if they didn't pay her for 3 days per California labor laws. They had no choice but to pay her for 3, and she took the other 2 off without pay. Her dad (the enabler) loaned her is truck and wasn't able to get a hold of her for a week after that. They finally found her on Saturday (they were with us when she called his cell phone) and she said she was going to go back to work on Monday, she had to get a Dr release though. It doesn't appear she has gone back. 

Her dad, pulled himself out of denial for a minute and admitted that she seems to be "off the wagon" again and this is her MO. She just can't keep her sh*t together. She only picks when she is using so he can't deny that for her. Its obvious. If she hasn't already been let go from her job, she will be soon. She started April 2nd. She worked 10 weeks... apparently that's all she's got in her. 

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Letti.R's picture

The situation with your BM is very scarey.
I feel so sorry for your SS.
I am so afraid that BM's meth problem is going to have a tragically bad end which will impact your SS.

BSgoinon's picture

But sadly, I think he has prepared himself for the worst. He is very aware of who and what she is. And of course he will be devasted, but I don't think he will be surprised at all. This has been going on for so long, and he was 12 when he stopped living with her, he was old enough to see what was going on. Of course it started when  he was MUCH younger, but he was there when it got REALLY bad. Once he stopped going to her house completely, she got even worse but he saw enough to know. 

moving_on_again's picture

If she has staph, I wouldn't want her around. I am sure with the constant picking she's going to infect someone else. 

BSgoinon's picture

But her stepmom did tell her dad that she wants their truck disinfected because he let BM drive it to the Dr. I don't blame her.