I remarried a year ago. Never having lived with my new husband before I married him. He has three kids aged 17, 19 and 10. First two girls and last a boy. They are the messiest, laziest kids I have ever met. They leave their soiled panties on the floor, leave dishes all over the house and binge eat then stick their sweet papers anywhere they can to hide it. They have interests in nothing but TV and play station. When they visit every second weekend I try to ignore it all.