The custody order says DH should be awarded extra time with SD if SD asks for it. Seriously. The order was written by a custody evaluator. SD has asked for more time repeatedly since summer! A counselor is involved. It was set that she was going to get set extra days. Then on the day SD was suppose to come bio mom freaked out said that's not how she understood it. So it didn't happen. Met with counselor. She thought the same as DH. They all met together & counselor said bio mom & DH need to communicate more & work it out that SD has more time. SD asks for more time every week. Every. So DH texts she wants to come Monday. Bio mom says no we have plans. This has been going on for three weeks now. It's so frustrating!!!! The counselor has the authority to change things (via custody eval) but she won't cuz she wants them to communicate, thinking there will be less fighting if they agree. History is PAS by bio mom. That's why so many professionals are involved. I don't have a question really. Just frustrated bio mom continues to hurt kids, manipulate & alienate. Ugh.