This could be an incredibly long story, but I will make it snappier. EXMIL and EX are supposed to "share" a weekend visit every 3 weeks. This is due to them not following rules, and the judge took away one visit per month, hence the E3W. EXMIL is supposed to have "grandparent time" on Sat. and take BD6 to the safety center for supervised visits on Sun. But, she is still just handing BD6 over to dad and "New GF". So I get a text yesterday about 5 min before my kid is supposed to be dropped off from EXMIL about how BD6 is running a fever, peeing her pants, saying it hurts to pee, and peed in all of her clothes that she wore over. She shows up 5 min later and BD is wearing a freaking jean jacket (we live in MN) and shoes that are too small. Not to mention how blatantly obvious it was that she picked up my kid from Dad and "New GF" somewhere by my house and texted me what her dipshidiot father and his stupid concubine told her. And NO ONE did anything to comfort or care for my sick child! So now on top of spending my whole Monday off with a sick child, taking her to the Dr, I am out of a winter jacket for probably 3 weeks or whenever they decide to give it back. I can't buy her a new coat every time they are irresponsible! This has happened MORE than twice already! Why do they even take her if they won't take care of her or be responsible? Just to make an appearance in my life to irritate me?