...which is that he will be getting a vasectomy in 13 days, so I will not have to worry about EVER becoming a parent and having to deal with this shit. Best birthday present of all time. At least for me.

Not even into the weekend, DH finds out from Tattle-Tale McGee (aka SS13) that SS11 is no longer allowed to play with a certain friend because they have been up to questionable behavior (I mean, way more questionable than usual since SS11 has never made a good choice in his life), which I won't mention here, but let's just say it's a bit disconcerting (and no, not in a sexual way). Enough that BM SHOULD have told DH about it the SECOND she found out about it, but DH had to hear about it 4 days later from SS13. BM should know by now that ANYTHING said, done, BREATHED in front of SS13 is going to be reported to ANYONE he knows with authority because he is a blabbermouth and LOVES getting SS11 into trouble, so she should've just been up-front with DH, and then he wouldn't be so incredibly pissed that he's ready to take the skids from her (which would be my worst nightmare since, as mentioned above, I don't even want kids of my OWN, much less these two semen demons). Apparently the school counselor is involved (and HE should've said something to DH, too, but probably assumed BM would), and now since BM is scared DH will take away her kids, she's making extra sure to involve him in the meeting with said school counselor. BM, by the way, is notorious for keeping DH in the dark about everything possible from school events to when crap like this goes down. Being a parent sucks as far as I can tell.