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Submitted by boogeymom on Wed, 07/04/2012 - 12:26pm

So, I just found out that one of my VERY BFF'S is dating a guy who has kids. Is it bad that I kind of want to tell her to run for the hills? I guess he has a 13 year old boy and a 10 year old girl. According to her, the BM is super cool, etc., but this relationship is very new and I remember how I was when I was first with DH. Pretty much the same way (even though my skids' BM has NEVER been super cool). I think now is her chance to get out before she gets trapped like me.

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Submitted by stepmisery on Wed, 07/04/2012 - 12:53pm

Give her copies of Stepmonster and Divorce Poison.

I think it's fair to say that a lot of wives and gf's land here because there is a crazy BM in the picture. Not all BM's are crazy, obviously, but if you read here long enough, you'll see that a lot of times the crazy didn't come out until the new woman moved in with or married the father.

So too soon to say she's a cool BM.