I am involved with a woman and she has kids. I love them all very much. MY woman's ex husband is a narcissist. I am having all kinds of issues with the things he dose. Let me give you an example. Dad has the kids the day before we leave on a driving vacation. He tells the kids that they will die from eating out. Mind you the kids are young, 10 and 8. Dad tells the kids that the only reason they can go on vacation is because he pays for everything. Truth he dose pay support at a rate of 600 a month total. Vacation starts, kids fear eating because they might die.