DH and his exwife are to go to mediation on his motion to amend the order of custody for their child (she has custody and they have equal visitation). Due to many factors, he is now motioning to be the residential parent.

There are so many points of concern and pros/cons to raise issue of at mediation, that I suggested they all be typed out and organized to assist him in mediation so he does not forget anything (there's so much that it is understandably enough to scatter one's brain and turn it to mush)