My fiancé has 2 girls ages 2 and 3. she doesn't tell them no hardly at all and they act like spoiled brats and it pisses me off. they are completely different when they are just with me but the second their mom comes in they put on an act just to get their way on everything. they play her like a fiddle and they know they cant do that with me so they go to there mom whenever they want something cause they know she wont say no. I always feel like the jerk cause I'm the only one who will tell the girls no quite often because I'm trying to teach them not to act like a spoiled brat.