So here is my question.. Is it okay for your husband to take your daughter A to the eye doctor with your daughter C, then have to go to the eye emergency room and so you eat at a cheap diner. But wait .. only to tell those children who are by the way living full time in the home that since they ate cheap diner food that the other children who do not live full time in the home will go that night to eat 20 dollar a plate hibachi Japanese food where they cook in front of you and daughter A and daughter C cannot go.....!!!!??????