Yesterday DH says to me, I have a very bad feeling. SD is not answering her phone and neither is her husband. They went out last night. I should look in the police blotter.
SD is bi-polar. She is a problem drinker. But rather then be supportive he sits there waiting for her to fuck up. He only cares because she has SGD back. Doesn't care about the other 3 kids or even what SD goes through.
He started talking about how the neighbor boy is 14, but mentally 10 and SGD likes him and for that matter his mom should never babysit SGD. I told him that is not fair, to the mom or the boy. 14 yr olds might have raging hormones but that doesn't make them prediators. He went on about how he was a boy so he knows more then I do and if I really feel that way I should let DD hang out alone with this 14 yr old that likes her and she likes. Well, I do feel that way and DD can be friends with him. He can come over to hang out. And no, I wouldn't leave her alone. That doesn't make the boy a predaitor. It doesn't make the mom a bad mom either. He got all mad. But come on. If it was me, I would be watch SGD closer then this boy. She has proven she will lie about people, she is an abusor and she is a predaitor. But DH is soo biase when it comes to SGD. He defends everything she does. She threatened my sons snake if he told she was looking up Miley Cirus naked. We have proof, we know she did this but somehow he doesn't see it. She lost her kindle (which he is giving back to SD, without talking to me) but no punishment for the threats. And still doesn't believe she likes boys.