Hi guys.I just join here in order to help me my feeling.I am married to my husband with 3 stepkids ages 18 (living in her dorm now) 14 he is living with us and 12 she's living with us too.my first 3 years living with them I gave them all my love and care,cooked them.and do their laundry .after I gave birth to my own daughter I stop doing laundry their clothes.everything was smooth by then.I have only 1 problem the 12 years old step kid I have is really hard to manage .she gave me miserable life ,to the extent I wanted to leave their dad.I already went home for a vacation last april because