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Weekend was actually ok-until now. H continues to lie, to try to "smooth" over his mess

bewitched's picture

My sis was here this weekend-she took over with Mom and Dad so I could have a break and catch up in class.

H, "kissing a$$" big time, did all the cooking. Of course, he still went off to his card playing every day. Of course, SD14 was still here for the weekend (I just studied, worked thru 3 lessons).

BUT-H had told me the IRS would be garnishing $500/per paycheck on his tax debt. That's what he told me on Friday. Now we sat down to discuss finances today-and the jerk had lied again. The IRS is going to be garnishing 50% of his paychecks-not $500, each pay period. Yep FIFTY PERCENT!

And then he tried to turn it around on me, because I don't have a job. EXCUSE ME? He's the one who told me to quit work when we got married BECAUSE HE HAD ALL of HIS debts paid, and is making good money. HE'S the one who INSISTED I get a newer vehicle when we got married AS A WEDDING GIFT. HAH! Now I have to worry about how I'm going to make the auto payment, because the loan is in MY name.

Only one good thing has come of this. SD17 no longer will be coming around-and H can no longer get her her hearts desire. H explained to her that money is now tight-told her that 2 weeks ago when he took the texting off the cell phones. Evidently she is hard of hearing. Because this weekend she asked him to buy her a prom dress for $350. Ummm, his last paycheck, by the time the IRS garnished it, was $400. For 2 weeks pay period. SHE WANTED HIM TO GIVE HER ALL OF HIS PAYCHECK FOR A PROM DRESS.

Guess what? Nope. No more. She will be 18 in one month. I told him as soon as she turns 18, she is off my car insurance. NO MORE.

I feel sick. Sick of H. Sick of SD17. Sick of financial problems that I never had, in my entire life, until I married this moron.

Hope I get called for an interview. Pray I get a job. I need out.

(I know, this is the same stuff I've said before.) Posting it just helps relieve the stress somewhat. And gives me a reference to read during the now few times that I feel anything towards him but anger and disgust.

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Sasha's picture

Maybe they will work with you, considering how bad the economy is these days. I am just so sorry that you're going through this. Please take care of yourself, you're burning the candle at both ends, stressed to the max...I know you probably feel like you're in a hole so deep you will never get out, but have faith, because you will succeed!

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}