Am glad to have found this.  I’ve been with my hubby for 25 years.  SD was 25 when we met.  Always felt a special friendship with her.  No children for me, always felt she was a bonus.  Of course we had ups and downs.  Once she was helping her mom move and her dad asked can I go help.  Yes was my answer.  He called numerous times and she did not get back for almost a Year!  We finally made contact and she acted like nothing happened!  When I commented about the time, she said no way have I not seen my dad for a year.  They both have very selective memory.