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Wish me luck!

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Thu, 06/14/2018 - 3:34am

Wish me luck all goes well Saturday. My SS graduation party is this Saturday. The graduation was just great (not). My mother in law, my husband and I get there early to get good seats and who decided to sit right behind us? You guessed it the BM! Her family sits with her. When we were leaving her family tried to make small talk. She said to them “you guys are to f#*king nice just saying”. We did not try to engage in conversation we were trying to be polite and civil. Just goes to show you she will never change.

Missing my mom

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Sat, 05/19/2018 - 9:49am

I'm missing my mom today. Not for any particular reason just because she isn’t there anymore. My parents were married for 52 years. They never separated or anything. My mom never had to work outside the home. My dad provided for us all. We weren’t perfect but perfect enough. You would think growing up with parents that taught us good morals to be good to one another we would be able to adult better. My brother is the oldest and the most worthless. He is an alcoholic and still lives with my dad. My sister is the middle and has been married 6 times and has just moved back in the my dad.

Had the talk with SS

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Wed, 05/16/2018 - 3:20am

I broke down and talked to my SS. I told him how upset I have been about not being invited to his awards dinner. I told him I felt like I was lied to and that I wished he would’ve talked to me about it instead of not saying anything to me. He told me he wanted me to be there but it was his BM. I told him I know he is in the middle and I’m sorry for that I just wish his BM would be civil for his sake. It’s been 6 freaking years you would think she would have moved on and not be so bitter. Anyway I told him I was so proud of him and that I loved him.

I got invited but no apology.

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Sun, 05/13/2018 - 6:10pm

Well I got invited to an awards thing at the SS’s school. I just don’t feel like going. I have not gotten an apology for being lied to about his dinner. DH still hasn’t gotten the invitations ready to be mailed. I wasn’t going to say anything but I did. I told the DH he had better get them done and mailed. So if he doesn’t do it then it’s on him. I’ve been trying to not be distant towards him. It’s hard but I’ve been trying to move past this. SS didn’t even tell his dad happy birthday. That made me feel sad for my DH. Seems like all we are good for using our vehicles.

The saga continues...

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Wed, 05/09/2018 - 4:39am

The saga continues. The DH still has not gotten the invitations ready for the graduation party. It’s killing me not to get them around but I’m standing my ground and not doing anymore for this party. DH “talked” to the SS about not inviting me to the top 10 dinner. So SS said thanks for getting my invitations. That’s it. That’s all I’ve gotten from SS. DH just says what am I supposed to do and it’s not my fault. So I’m refusing to do anything. There might not be a party if the invitations don’t go out soon. Not my problem!! 

Threaten to leave for a few days.

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Submitted by Beth1125 on Thu, 05/03/2018 - 3:37am

I threaten to leave for a few days because I’m done being left out. The youngest SS is graduating and having awards dinners for this and that. I’m always told there is limited seating or whatever. We have been married for 6 years. 3 weeks ago I finally broke down and told husband I’m done planning and getting stuff for the party. If I’m not allowed to the award dinners then I’m not going out of my way for his graduation party. I explained to him how hurt I was and that I blame him for not questioning why I’m not allowed to go again.