Hello! I am new to this site, but came across it on my search for advice. Today is Thursday. The start of the weekend with my "stepkids." I'm feeling anxious and really not in the mood to deal with them. The older one is 15 and the youngest is 10. I don't have any children on my own, so often times I ask myself if maybe I just not cut out for this type of relationship. Their dad and I have been together for over 3 years. It's by far the most rewarding relationship I've ever been in due to their dad. He is an incredible man.