Okay well me and my MIL haven't had the best MIL DIL relationship much was because she chose to be like her mom and play favorites with her kids and chose her DDs as her favorite children and shunned her DSs. This past Saturday she messaged me on FB and we had a long conversation and she apologized for being so ugly to me and that she was sorry for calling me all the ugly names she called me behind my back. She used to take DH's BM's sides but she sees the reason why me and DH feel the way we do about them now. Phew! I feel so much better now.